Today is the day for change!

Yesterday evening I was told that I always think that everybody and everyone is against me. I was completely shocked! This statement came form someone that is really dear to me and it triggered a complete blockade and an instant response "I am not like that!" I don't see myself as someone who always sees the bad side of things. On the contrary. I realise I am incredibly lucky! Instead of leaving the autopilot on and saying over and over again that I am not like that, I let emotions run through me. All the rejection, outrage, blame etc. I let everything run through me. I allowed myself to feel them, but I've also let them go. I did not blame the statement or the parson who said that. This was the kind of statement that, in the past, could trigger a fire in a moment, and the fire burned for a long time. But this time it sparked a change, but no fire.

The event was an eye opener. Among other things, it made me to look into the past. How many times have labels from outside defined us? That we are not worthy of love, that no one can live with us, we are unable to communicate, that we are resentful etc...

No matter what others speak about you, what matters is what you think about yourself! We can take them in consideration but all in all what really matters is what is in us. If people do not agree with the opinion we have of ourselves it is up to us to respond to that. Will we listen to our inner Goddess or will we listen to others? 

That defines the path you will take! Will we choose a path of growth and a path of being the best version of ourselves? 

In any case, it is important to listen to the surroundings, but only you honestly know who you are. It is imperative that we are honest with ourselves. You have to acknowledge you best as well as our weakest side. When we acknowledge and accept them only then we can grow.

Every day is an opportunity to grow. Every day there are new possibilities how to get one step closer to the goal. We are not meant to live our life in hiding, as a refugee of our own perception. We are here to live our lives as a Goddess's of our inner beauty that shine through and through!

Your responsibility is to create a better future for yourself! We both know it. And I know you can and WILL make it! Have a fantastic time growing!

Acceptance as a start of a better future?

Yesterday I read a post of a vegan, talking about people who eat meat, as the non-humans. It shocked me just how caught up in our own lives we are. In a way that is logical because, whose life are we going to life if not our own. But often we become so infatuated with it, that we can not see beyond our life. This quickly leads to a situation where we reject anything that is not excatly as we think it should be. It sounds tremendously over the top and excessive, but recently we have witnessed just that.

In recent years, there was a another phenomena. On one hand we do anything we can to be different, but at the same time we would do anything to belong. We want to belong and be part of something, anything, sometimes no price is too high. 

Recently, I noticed another phenomenon. How many people are trying to be "outside" compartments and groups, but just this incredible tendency to be "impossible to label", landed them in another "compartment". There is an on going fight against labeling and some are furiously trying to break stereotypes. All this fighting is rasing an interesting question. Not whether the stereotypes are where they should be or are they at least properly set, but for why are we so bothere by them? Why do we even care? Why not direct the energy we are waisting to fight labeling and stereotyps to shift and use it on ourselvs. Why not use it within? 

Incredible amounts of energy would be directed to where they should be in the first place. Once you understand yourself, who you are and what you are, then you don't care what others thing of you anyhow. All the labeling becomes just a game and is incredibly funny. 

Free yourself from it and so you can begin to perceive yourself as you are. ANd as a benefit you start to see others just the way they are! You stop condemning your fears and with that, you stop judging others and their choices in life. You are able to look at others and see them as they really are. 

What would happen if you would let yourself see yourself and others with all? With good, bad and the ugly? Are you able to see everyone as souls who were destined to be here and now? All God's children regardless of the shape and sharp words? 

When we are able to do that, we have no need to fear for the future!